So now that we have the basics down about what a real Christian is-let's take a look at how to identify an unequally yoked relationship. You know deep down in your heart if you aren't equally yoked with someone. You just know. Especially if you spend time with them and see how they respond to life's issues. You may ignore those areas because you “love” him and he's “on his way to being saved” or you're trying to “get him saved.” The only thing you could alter into the a man try their diaper. Men needs to wanted God to own himself. You may have been with that person for a really long time and you don't want to start over with anybody else but you know good and well that person, (insert name) is not God's best for your life.